"Play is one of the most important ways that we learn. ... Regrettably, as adults over time, we've lost some of that ability to play, but transforming is very much about being playful, with yourself and with others – asking questions, like 'if I want to remember this view of the Grand Canyon, let's all look at it and then turn our backs and call out five of six words that are as specific as possible, then turn around and see if you can find your list?' That's where you're also beginning to connect with other people's experiences – that's a very important part of transformation, shared experiences." – Bonnie Pitman